You see, most guys will do everything they can to please girls into liking them, but guys who couldn’t care less about impressing random girls stand out like a rose amongst thorns. Women want a challenge, so when a guy comes along who isn’t afraid to speak his mind and disagree with women it shows he’s a guy worth talking to.
Make her notice you. Wear items of clothing and jewellery that attract women and start conversations. Leather jackets, jewellery and tailored suits are a great place to start. You could even go as far as getting that tattoo you’ve always wanted ? Anything you can do to mix things up from how you present yourself will work wonders at attracting a whole new wave of female attention.
Get ready to approach her. Before you approach her get rid of any other excuses that are stopping you in your tracks, for example, assuming she won’t be interested in you if you’ve never had a girlfriend.
Approach her with confidence. Now that you’re ready, it’s time to approach her. Smile, relax your body language and approach in a non confrontational way like you’d do when you’re in Wallmart asking a shelf stacker where the butter’s at.
As you talk to her watch that your vocal inflection isn’t too high and annoying like you need something, for example when a beggar says “excuse me, can you spare any change???” No one can stand needy requests from strangers they’ve just met, especially “excuse me”. That’s a big attraction killer right there.
Give her a genuine compliment. Tell her exactly why you approached her and be as specific if you can. Use the first think you noticed about her that attracted you. Perhaps it’s her her cute smile, her dimples, or if you see her a lot maybe this time her hair is tied back for the first time.
Tease her. Teasing is the easiest way to create sexual tension between you and a girl you like. Start teasing girls on a regular basis. For example, if a girl says she likes cats you can say “Wait…you’re a cat lady? How many cats do you have? If it’s more than 9 we’re not gonna work out”. In the split second it takes for her to realise you’re just teasing (and not insulting her) she experiences a massive feeling of euphoric relif. That feeling is usually accompanied by laughter and maybe even a punch on the arm for you if you’re lucky ?
Focus on her for conversation. Listen to her and make her the main subject of your conversation. You’ll create countless opportunities for teasing her and you’ll never be lost for conversation topics. When the focus is on her you leave much less room for error from your side, plus it gives you plenty of opportunities to tease her since she’ll hand deliver material to you on a silver platter.
Get her number. When you feel like the conversation has reached it’s peak, make your excuses for leaving and get her number. Even if you’re in a bar and she’s not going anywhere it’s always good to walk away for a bit to go join your mates and give her some space so she rejoin her friends and tell them all about you.
Ask her out on a date. Don’t try to achieve everything in one text. Build her curiosity, comfort and excitement about meeting up with you first, then ask her out on a date. An easy way to naturally steer the conversation towards a date is to insinuate the idea of a date first. Perhaps you meet her in a coffee shop and she’s a coffee addict? You can then mention some new boutique coffee shop that’s opened up in town.
Where to go on a date. Choose a location that is relaxed, informal and has activities you can get physically intimate with. Avoid dinner dates for the first date. They’re awkward, expensive and way too formal.If however she insists on dinner then make sure you either suggest splitting the bill, or say “I’ll get this and you can get the drinks after.” If she’s big on equal rights she won’t be able to say no! ?